Friday, March 30, 2012
So a few days ago the hubby and I went to meet up with a relative, just to hang out for a little bit before we went home. We were all outside talking, laughing, and having a good time when my relative thought that it would be a good idea for me to go inside and say hello to the ladies. Just to back track a little bit, I was outside with the fella's and the ladies were inside. I never seem to have a problem with men; it's always the women bringing drama. I'm saying ladies to be nice actually. Nevertheless, I was hesitant because I already knew what the outcome would be, yet I went inside anyway. The way that I was raised and one of my grandmother's golden rules was, if you went into anyone's home you always spoke. So me being the person that I am and reflecting on how I was raised, it just comes natural for me to say hello. There were 3 ladies sitting at a table playing cards (didn't think people our age did that, lol). When I tell you, two of the three women did not open their dang mouths and just gave me a look like, "Who does this chick think she is?", that is exactly what happened. The 3rd lady mumbled, and I do mean mumbled-under her breath, I'm assuming, "how are you doing". I say assumed because it was so low, I couldn't really understand what she said. The entire time, they continued looking at me as if they were wondering why I was even there. I just got the heck out of there because I already knew the type of women that I was dealing with. I've dealt with this type of madness all of my life so I'm use to it and I guess it doesn't change as you get older either. I just think that is so ignorant to behave that way and what is wrong with saying hello to someone. All I will say is insecure and jealous, and I guess I'm doing something right. It's all a part of living in the city known as the twilight zone!!!!